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Financial Intimacy Book Cover - Don't Worry About a Thing, Dear.When I was widowed without warning, my world turned upside down. In this book, I share my financial fears during our marriage and how my husband and I addressed them before he died in an accident. What I learned and what I write about can help save your marriage. If you face divorce or widowhood, the same information can save your life.

This book shows you how to become financially intimate and equal in your marriage. By following the advice in this step-by-step guide about marriage and money, you will protect yourself against the financial consequences of divorce or widowhood. Buy the Book.

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Why People Need "Conversations from the Heart"

“Life is what happens while you’re busy making other plans.” John Lennon

People respond to emotions, not logic. They need an emotional push to move them from good intentions to action. They want to take care of the people they love, but procrastinate and often live in denial about their mortality and vulnerability. Their delay in estate planning puts their loved ones and survivors at risk.

Financial and legal professionals are not trained and are not comfortable speaking to their clients about the emotional aspects of legacy. That means they currently reach only a fraction of the population who should be consulting with them about estate and financial planning.

I create the emotional urgency needed to start the crucial conversations between boomers and their parents about legacy, inheritance and end of life issues. In my presentation series called “Conversations from the Heart”, I share my personal story of being ” widowed without warning, but financially and emotionally prepared. I teach people how to move from good intentions to taking the steps needed for estate and legacy planning.

My message is: The only thing we can control is to plan for the things we can’t control. See your legal and financial professional today!

Presentation topics include:

Conversations from the Heart: Financial Intimacy across Generations

Financial Intimacy: Good for Your health, Great for Your Wealth

A Couple's Guide to Financial Intimacy

Financial Intimacy: Why Women Need It and How to Get It

 

Financial Planners & Professionals

Helga Hayse Helps You Protect Your Clients


Helga is a dynamic, powerful and entertaining speaker. Women resonate with her honest disclosure of her personal experience of being widowed unexpectedly but prepared emotionally and financially to rebuild her life.
Helga's topics include:

A Wife’s Guide to Financial Intimacy: All About Your Husband’s Money
Financial Intimacy: A Woman’s Guide to Financial Clarity
Financial Intimacy: Good for your Health, Great for Your Wealth

Helga has been a speaker for:

Norcal Financial Planners Conference, 2009
King Wealth Planning
Family Wealth Consulting Group
Deposition Reporters Association
Coldwell Banker
Opes Financial Advisors
American Society on Aging
Marin Financial Advisors
New York Life
Merrill Lynch

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Helga provided the inspiration for many of our clients to open meaningful dialogue into their financial planning issues and desires. I call it “getting to the heart of the issues.”

Paul S. King, CFP, President
King Wealth Planning, Inc. http://www.kingwealth.com

“Helga provided our clients specific questions and ways for families to begin the conversations that lead to peace and understanding in relationships, bringing generations closer through clearing up long held misunderstandings. Helga’s conversations with our clients add an invaluable complement to our services. Making the effort to have the tough conversations now allows for people to experience grace and certainty in life’s most difficult times.”

Craig Martin, Principal,
Family Wealth Consulting Group (FWCG) http://www.fwcg.net/

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